Food For Thought Friday #10 and February Photofest Day 18
To quote Meatloaf, “I would do anything for love, but I won’t do that…”
Or even better; Adele, “Guess she gave you things, I didn’t give to you…” (who’s guessing it was anal?)
Sexual limits are not exclusive to the world of BDSM, so with that in mind…
Is there something, (or things), that you would absolutely say no to in a sexual context?
What are your limits? Are they hard? Soft?
Have your limits changed over time?
I had never really thought about limits, I’d never had the chance or reason to really explore them, most of my previous partners being uninterested in anything kinky. The most adventurous things got was a 69.
As a relative newbie I’m still exploring and learning about different kinks. And my limits.
But right now – Age play, pet play, needles, medical, fecal – no, no, no, no and eew no!
Knife play – was no, now I’m not so sure. I’ve seen a lot of photos recently that have got me wondering. Would I like the feel of the flat blade held against me, the tip tracing across my skin? I don’t think I’d like much more than that but who knows.
Gags – was no, now we’ve used his hand and a scarf, haven’t progressed to a ball gag yet but I think we may.
Ropes, toys, nipple clamps, pain, all things that have become a regular part of life 😀
There are things that don’t interest either of us or that neither of us likes so they don’t enter into the equation, other things that I thought were no’s have become yes or maybe. My limits have changed as we’ve discussed and explored different things and I’m sure they will continue to evolve and change as we discuss anything else that we may want to try and maybe in the future I’ll have a more structured list.
I never thought I’d enjoy someone hitting me, but there you go.
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